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Today, I just uploaded our vlog “Before we become parent”, you can watch on below link and I share some tips what to prepare before become a parent after the video.
Based on my experience, here what to prepare before become a parent.
All couple that want to become a parent, firstly you need to be prepare emotionally. Becoming a parent is not an easy, it will “menguji kesabaran ” dan there a lot of unexpected challenges come so need to be emotionally strong.
I can say, I am not emotionally strong when we become a parent, I had “hati tisu”, I cried a lot whenever see my son get the injections, I panicking over everything during the early day we become a parent. I’ve learned my lessons so being a parent need to be emotionally strong. If you’re not that strong, you need to learn to be strong ( just like I did now), I am in progress to learn to be strong and not panicking over everything because I know God will be there with my family.
As a woman, just get married and I know you want to take care of your physic because who want to be fat kan? After you being pregnant, your body is no longer yours anymore. I love to say, I shared my body with my baby. So, I need to take care of what I eat, what I do and everything. Especially during the early stage of pregnancy. Always be careful because we don’t know the baby condition inside there. Do whatever you can do to take care of your baby.
Having a baby is not cheap you know. There’s a lot of expenses. But, no need worry la. Your child will be blessing so you will always enough. Don’t worry too much about money. But, please do save and put aside money for your baby expenses, its commitment, just like your house loan/car loan, need to put aside for it every month.
That’s it! I think these 3 things is most important to get prepare before become a parent. To be really honest, I am so happy when I know I’m going to be parent after 1 month we got married. I want to get baby early as possible….haha, why? because I’m not getting younger and I want to take care of my baby while we still a bit young hahaha.
I hope these tips will help you a bit on your becoming parent preparation. If you have any comment, please do let me know.